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    I like her posts, snapshots into someone leading a more interesting life than mine are nice.

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        I mean I find their posts interesting for that same reason, but I don’t feel the need to get railed by old japanese men so I don’t think much joy is being stolen from me

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        25 days ago

        you should print the last sentence on the door of every gym. And for slightly different reasons, in all male bathrooms/changing rooms 😄

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        My high points are when my cat does something particularly cute, when I remember a bash command without needing to look it up, or when some jerk in a book I’m reading finally gets their comeuppance.

        I have very little joy for comparison to steal. It’s just kind of disorienting to realize that someone can live like that. Like, wanting something that involves human connection (whether sexual or otherwise), and actually getting it. And not being judged for having those needs, let alone announcing them.

        Something about it doesn’t compute. It just kinda breaks my brain a little. Can’t wrap my mind around what that would be like.

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          My high point was reading this comment. And I used to be the male version of Violet 20 years ago.

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              It’s just a simple compliment to an internet stranger. Their comment made me feel happy for a moment. Take a deep breath and move on if you didn’t like mineö

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                Hey, thanks stranger!

                Side note, I’ve always been curious whether “simping” is short for “simpering” or “sympathizing.” I’ve seen it used either way, I think.

                Like, when it’s used as an insult to people who are overly obsequious towards another, I could see it meaning “simpering.”

                But when it’s used as a noun to refer to someone who supports something detestable, I could see it meaning “sympathizer,” and then subsequently being converted to verb form by nature of internet slang…

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    XD Well, yeah it’s happened a few times… Hopefully she gets her mental health in check, this time around! Do hope the best for her.

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      Yeah honestly feels like a sweet person, but someone who needs some actual caring adults in her life.

      Violet, you need men that won’t fuck you.

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    I think there needs to be a hornypost com to contain this in the future. That way people who want to see those posts can, but those that don’t can just block a single com. Instead of having to block the same person who remakes their account every month to filter everything they post to not see hornyposts at the top of shitposts.

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      Why should the horny posters have to move when they are active, happy, and popular here? If their posts are reaching top frequently, maybe they should stay here, and you can make a pruder shitposting community for your own needs

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        i find it dissapointing how the nsfw community preaches that consent is key, but at the same time when someone doesn’t consent to being exposed to porn by default then they’re a prude and should make new communities on their own.

        the least they could do is tag their nsfw posts as nsfw, which they consistently don’t do.

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          I find it disappointing how adult content builds communities and spaces, and then conservatives, well-meaning but newer folks, and payment processors work together to make sure the same people that brought the community into existence aren’t welcome anymore. We’re not even talking about porn here, were talking about memes of a horny nature. Moderators have the judgement to enforce tagging NSFW so you can filter it easily in client. Anything beyond that, yes I think you should start your own community, and make rules against horny shitposts there.

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            last time i saw that user’s profile, all of the posts were sexual. many of them not even really memes. posts about having intercourse with old men, wearing revealing clothes in the club and so on. i don’t think any of them were tagged, so the user themselves doesn’t care and apparently neither do the mods of the communities wherever it was posted to.

            no one’s pushing the nsfw users out, just wanting a mechanism for users who don’t want that stuff in the timeline to filter it out. why should people play whack-a-mole with people who don’t tag their horny posts properly and people who keep remaking accounts every other month?

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              so the user themselves doesn’t care and apparently neither do the mods of the communities wherever it was posted to.

              I’m sorry, do you not even know what community this is about? You’re complaining about the moderation here, or wanting horny posters to be in their own comm, but you don’t even know what comm violet was posting in? So you’re sorting by all and complaining…???

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                does me sorting by all somehow mean that i need to see untagged nsfw by default? as opposed to nsfw posters learning to tag their posts properly and not evading blocks?

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                  No, it means you replying to a thread about moving horny shitposters to a different community didn’t make sense to me. If you’re sorting by all it fully doesn’t matter and just block communities with poor moderation. I was talking about the first reply suggesting making horny shitposters have their own comm. You inserted yourself into that thread implying leaving them here would be a consent violation, but you mean on Lemmy.world in general since you’re sorting by all which is an even more extreme discussion than I was thinking.

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          Huh, I have come across their posts on random big communities multiple times and I don’t remember ever seeing porn or anything even nsfw (besides text, but that is debatable if text deserves an NSFW tag)

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      I’m more thinking that an explicit hornyposting community will help increase the quality and quantity of hornyposts, but I guess we’re on the same page as to what should be done

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      Just have her make her own comm where she’s admin and can ban people and people can block it if they want.

      To me, it’s a breath of fresh air from all the terrible world events and is just a little bit validating. Human, you might say. And even if none of it’s real, it’s nice to see somebody preaching anti-stuffiness and pro-feminism.

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      Plus, if it’s the same one username then the “haters” can just block that one user and there will be fewer of them complaining.

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        I personally have blocked the accounts that pop up but only because I keep this account SFW, but a lot of tagged NSFW content isn’t actually “nsfw” for my workplace, just the sexualized stuff, so I dont want to just sift all of it out automatically in the settings. I dont see why it bothers people to the point where they have to make a big deal out of it, sometimes I think people on the internet have too much energy if they can afford to be directing it to negative stuff like that.

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    I’m fully convinced that my user tags are some sort of Death Note for her accounts. Every single time I finally give her a user tag to be able to recognize her new account, she deletes her account like a day later.

    I tagged her like two days ago. And then yesterday she posted about deleting her account.

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    What will you do without a rival? The fediverse must have balance.

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      A user who shows up every time her mental health takes a dive. She inevitably ends up shitposting about whatever her next horny escapade is going to be, or what she just did. The stories are often fairly wild, so lots of users tend to debate about the veracity of the posts. She apparently gets around fairly well. Lots of “I’m about to take three dicks in the middle of the woods” type of posts. And then she’ll delete her account when she gets her mental health in check. Then she comes back a few weeks later when she gets bored, and the entire cycle repeats.

      She’s a sort of resident novelty, like the old Unidan, Gallowboob, Shitty_Watercolour, the jumper cables guy, _vargas_, etc that were staples on Reddit at one time.

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        Violet comes and goes frequently, but when she’s here we get a glimpse into her sexual escapades and strange family dynamics through a constant stream of posts that reach the top. Then she deletes her account and comes back with a new name containing violet in it somewhere a few weeks later. Its honestly quite entertaining, and frankly would be much less so if it weren’t for the stop start. I kind of forget about them in the lulls, then one day start thinking, Jesus lemmy is horny today. and finally notice all the horny posts are violets return

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    The real question is, is this Violet the real deal Or are they just a collective?

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    I never thought the latest account was really her. The vibe was off. Distant. Blunt without the humor. Not chasing a dp with her Dad’s coworkers, 'cause she already been there.

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    Ah shit I might’ve been the final straw, who knows. We got in a disagreement about censorship this morning. I don’t think either of us were being harsh, but the timing is close.

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      There is (was?) this user called Violet (I think by the time I caught up, their username was violet_08 - they might have changed it to did_you_find_violets, or it might be an entirely different user; I don’t follow them too closely) who has been posting mostly thirsty/lewd/NSFW memes. AFAIK there have been several generations of accounts, deleted, new one created, and so on.

      I don’t get the hate, though. As long as the NSFW stuff is tagged I don’t mind it, and having one permanent username also helps against complaints since people can just block them once, instead of having to block every new account.

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        Ah. Yeah I have all NSFW content turned off. I guess that did it. Still don’t know wtf happened but maybe I’m better off. Or? Was it exciting? Anyone know?

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          Sounds like it’s just about an onlyfans model getting mixed results from fans and creating new accounts periodically. I think that’s the whole story. Repetitive enough to be noticed, and hence memed about here.