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      Millennials most certainly go to therapy too, there is a shortage of psychologists and it ain’t the boomers going and genz can’t get a job with health insurance. I joke but that’s not really funny, now I’m sad, let me call my therapist.

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        I go to therapy every january.

        The therapist assures me that we will be able to deal with my intense and labyrinthine shit.

        The therapist suggests some pithy bullshit.

        Then my inaurance runs out for the year.

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    This seems like more of a Gen X attribute to me. I’m an older millenial, and I know heaps of people my age who go to therapy.

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      I dunno, this seemed accurate to me - not because millennials don’t want to go to therapy, but because they can’t afford to.

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        Yep.

        But the covering up with music part is still less common for millenias, who are more likely to be able to openly discuss their struggles and emotions with friends

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      Yeah our generation was short of the -68 hippie love generation so we got the sex drugs and rock’n roll decade. Millennials seems so much more at ease with their (bad) feelings.

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        I mean, the alternative was to crumble.

        I mean, fuck. I was just thinking it through -
        In the U.S., Most millennials started out in the wake of the war on drugs and the damage it did to communities. From there, you have the racial tension of the 90’s, the death of truth with Fox News, the rise of school shootings, 9/11, the start of the rightward/authoritarian swing of the U.S., the ‘08 recession, citizens united, loss of democracy, COVID, another recession, inflation, housing insecurity, the loss of the illusion of democracy.

        I remember back in 1999, when I was a kid, hearing folks talk about how in just a few years weed was going to be legal and so was gay marriage. I remember thinking that the future was going to be bright and not some authoritarian hellscape. Now there are license plate readers at the grocery store parking lot.

        I mean. If we didn’t know how to manage the feelings we have about the future we were promised and lost, and all the trauma we’ve experienced along the way, I guess we’d all wind up driving Dodge Rams with U.S. Flags on them.

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    What‽ Therapy is our thing. We can’t afford a house but by fuck we go to therapy even if we have to cut down on avocado toast

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      I spent $1500 of my student loans on it the first half of the year before realizing I qualify for sliding scale and now have medicaid covering everything… I’ve been kicking myself for the last month, but hey, I also realized there’s tons of food banks in my area so at least I’m saving money in a few ways now 😅

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        And just as PSA for anyone else, even if (or especially if?) not in the States, if your insurance doesn’t cover therapy, a TON of therapists/counsellors offer sliding scale. Don’t be afraid to ask.

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      This is correct. Genx plays music loud. Millenials gently insert their earbuds so they can quietly listen to soft sad music and not bother anyone.

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        I’m a millennial who put his headphones on to loudly play music… to not bother anyone with it.

        Yes I have hearing damage. Not it’s not just from the music.

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    Millennials damn near invented therapy with all their mental wellness shit—tf is this post?

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    I always used to say to other guys who were freaking out about something on a job site “HEY! YOU WAIT UNTIL AFTER WORK AND CRY IN YOUR TRUCK LIKE THE REST OF US!”

    9 times out of 10 they laughed and calmed down a bit. And like it happens when your working camp jobs and long hours, everyone gets frustrated.

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    Meanwhile, boomers rev their Harley Davidson motorcycles to drown out their thoughts.

    I know the post is a joke, but millenial is the generation that paved the way to normalising mental health and therapy. Of course, not everyone would be on board. I know some of my peers who are stuck to the old ways and probably too afraid to even do therapy without even considering they don’t have to tell someone they went to therapy.

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    Laughs from the generation where everybody and their brother installed an amp and a couple of 12-in kickers in their car.

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        non-secured bandpass box with 2 15’s and a ungodly oversized amp hastily wired in place, all in the trunk of a clapped out Chevy Lumina blasting Crazy Town - Butterfly has entered the conversation…

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    Talking shit on here is my therapy. That and screaming at sky tempting god to show himself so I can kick his ass.