ha, k. i get it, and youre not wrong about gaining those skills.

I would think a good therapist would be able to provide exactly the kind of inter-human training needed to achieve what youre discussing. the tools exist, the people are out there. can any of those who really want that help afford it? prolly not.

we don’t have a ‘we need this thing to exist’ problem… we have a ‘no one wants to pay for that thing that already exists’ problem, as usual.

that said, you pointed out this causes a lot of societal problems though, and it seems many of the most vocal or problematic are those people (men) who dont think they are the problem at all. no amount draggin them to the help well is going to make them drink.

reminds me of the old joke… ‘q: how many psychiatrists does it take to change a lightbulb? a: only one, but the lightbulb has to want to change’

doesnt matter how good the training is if the person doesnt want it.

it kinda sounds like you failed to back them up and are attempting to restore them from a non-backup.

and yeah, pulling an integral, configured component and expecting it to just run fine seems kinda… psychotic.

you are the product not the customer… the customers are getting what they want

might be a bit heavy for this, but ive been having fun with nextcloud… its caldav based, i think. ive got it syncin with outlook calendars and the mobile client seems to throw shit in my face as needed

havent really messed with the contact stuff though

and nothing of value was lost.

worthless piece of shit. just another link leading to the deaths of tens of thousands across the globe.

lemmy does not federate with mastodon/the twitterverse…

i believe there is a one-way mechanism for twitterverse posts to be used an inbound content stream for lemmy (like rss ) but thats it… one direction.

i dont think theres anything you can do to make that happen short of some janky bridge.

i subscribe to lots of peeps from the twitterverse… i can reply to/comment on posts, see other comments, upvote/boost, etc… kbin is dead long live mbin.

unless somethin new has happened, lemmy doesnt fully federate to mastodon/the twitterverse. interaction is very limited.

its one of the reasons i use mbin instead of lemmy

coming soon, to a united states near you!

Well… its for data driven anything…so in your case id prolly have a dash with all my services maybe I a list with ip/port and a red/green status… links to the admin piece of that service, etc… cert exp dates

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yes, just like religion being an inherent evil taught to impressionable children, so are many racist people they are led down that path blindly and ignorantly follow it til death. the brainwashed masses

we actually fought an entire war over the concept… and the racists still try to pretend it wasnt racism, it was states rights to be racists

its kinda like that old trope about nazis… you let a nazi sit at your table, there is now a table full of nazis. you can blow up all you want about ambiguity, but theres no ambiguity when you vote for racist or pedophile. none. zero.

if you vote for racists, youre a racist. theres not a lot of ambiguity there.

uhhhh racism? in the united states redneck is === racist asshole. the racism is a part of their identity… not sure how it escaped your entire question.

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the oldest profession… weird to see marketing for it

pfft. ive cut better lines than yours before.

host instance is using mbin, not lemmy. its more reddit-like than lemmy but has access to all the same content…also natively connects to the the twitterverse (mastodon).

https://moist.catsweat.com/

im not going to bother you seem trollish… your rep precedes you

g’day!

haha wow its been awhile for you hasnt it?