Before I met her, my wife went to an anatomy course in which the teacher apparently said women couldn’t have kinks (though I believe the word used was “philia”).
I wonder how many of these teachers telling others that women don’t like sex were just in denial about their own dead bedroom at home. “Oh honey, nono, it’s not you, it’s that women just aren’t interested in sex in general! Now go off and earn your paycheck, I need to give some special instructions to the pool boy. You know how particular I am about the state of our pool!”
Before I met her, my wife went to an anatomy course in which the teacher apparently said women couldn’t have kinks (though I believe the word used was “philia”).
That tracks deeply with my understanding of the history of kinky women’s community and culture.
Oh clearly! It’s just simple science! Philia are stored in the balls. 😉
I wonder how many of these teachers telling others that women don’t like sex were just in denial about their own dead bedroom at home. “Oh honey, nono, it’s not you, it’s that women just aren’t interested in sex in general! Now go off and earn your paycheck, I need to give some special instructions to the pool boy. You know how particular I am about the state of our pool!”
This roughly matches my wife’s theories.