Guys I’m in a slump, I keep having the same fight every time I feel bored and want to go out to do something and I can’t because I don’t know what to do because I don’t even know what kinds of things I can do, like what classification of activity I should pick. And even when I do pick an activity class I’m paralyzed with the decisions regarding how to execute that activity. It’s a 3dimentional puzzle of trying to find what doesn’t make me miserable, is actually available to me, and I understand.

Here is my current list of activity classes, I keep it as an Obsidian Kanban board where each lane is a my opinion. What classifications should I add or if you have any ideas for what specific things I can do I’d really appreciate that too.

I’m based in Brooklyn

New things

  • [ ] Hobbyist Groups Model Building, Gardening Clubs #social
  • [ ] Joining Environmental Groups #social

Want to do

  • [ ] Volunteering at Charities #social #commitment
  • [ ] Calligraphy #lazy #equipment
  • [ ] Electronic Circuit Building #equipment #alone
  • [ ] Skating Inline, Ice #sport #inside #winter
  • [ ] Kickboxing #sport
  • [ ] Canoeing #sport #social #outside
  • [ ] Volleyball #sport #social #club #outside
  • [ ] Handmade Jewelry #equipment #class
  • [ ] Robotics #equipment #expensive #alone
  • [ ] Electronic Music Production #alone #class
  • [ ] Nature Walks for Relaxation #alone
  • [ ] Listening to Calming Music #alone
  • [ ] Progressive Muscle Relaxation #alone
  • [ ] Joining a Film Club #club
  • [ ] Community Art Classes #social #class
  • [ ] Collage Making #materials
  • [ ] Baking as a creative activity #lazy #home #materials
  • [ ] Music Composition #lazy
  • [ ] Sewing #art #equipment
  • [ ] Coffee Latte Art #class #equipment
  • [ ] Swimming

Don’t want to do

  • [ ] Volunteering for Political Causes #social
  • [ ] Participating in Dance Classes #social
  • [ ] Joining a Choir or Music Group #social
  • [ ] Language Exchange Clubs #social #club
  • [ ] Furniture Restoration #expensive #materials #resources
  • [ ] Garden Design #outside
  • [ ] Film Making #art #equipment
  • [ ] Rugby #sport #social #club
  • [ ] Lacrosse #sport #social #club #outside
  • [ ] Dodgeball #sport #social #club #outside
  • [ ] Ultimate Frisbee #sport #social #club #outside
  • [ ] Parkour #sport #social #outside
  • [ ] Wrestling #sport #social #club #inside
  • [ ] Surfing #sport #summer #outside
  • [ ] Snowboarding #sport #expensive #winter
  • [ ] Skiing Alpine or Cross-Country #sport #expensive #winter
  • [ ] Rowing #sport #social #club #outside #hard
  • [ ] Gymnastics #sport #social #club #inside #hard
  • [ ] Cricket #sport #social #club #outside
  • [ ] Basketball #sport #sport #social #club #outside
  • [ ] Football/Soccer #sport #social #club #outside
  • [ ] Weight Lifting #sport #club #hard
  • [ ] Rock Climbing #sport
  • [ ] Martial Arts Karate, Judo #sport
  • [ ] Dancing various styles #sport #club #social

Planning

  • [ ] Volunteer at animal shelter
  • [ ] Pottery #art #expensive #equipment
  • [ ] Sculpting #art #expensive #equipment

Doing

  • [ ] Reading manga #lazy

Will do it again

  • [ ] Deep Breathing Exercises #alone
  • [ ] Boxing #sport #hard #club #equipment
  • [ ] Yoga #sport #inside #alone #club
  • [ ] Hiking #sport #outside
  • [ ] Swimming #sport #club
  • [ ] Spas #lazy #expensive
  • [ ] Writing Journaling, Novels, Poetry #art
  • [ ] Playing a Musical Instrument #art
  • [ ] Attending Networking Events #social
  • [ ] Aromatherapy #therapy
  • [ ] Massage Therapy
  • [ ] Herbal Therapy #therapy
  • [ ] Tea Ceremonies #alone
  • [ ] Mobile App Development
  • [ ] Open Source Contributions
  • [ ] Going to a comedy show #outside #lazy

Did it once

  • [ ] Photography #art #equipment
  • [ ] Joining a Book Club #social
  • [ ] Cycling #sport #equipment #outside
  • [ ] Drawing #art #skilled
  • [ ] Painting #art #equipment
  • [ ] Scuba diving

Do it with friends

  • [ ] Attending Community Festivals #social
  • [ ] Attending Concerts and Live Performances #social
  • [ ] Cooking Classes with Friends #social #class #club

Hated it

  • [ ] Meditation #alone
  • [ ] Running #sport #outside #hard
  • [ ] Sitting in Silence

Used to do it but its over

  • [ ] Gaming Communities Online or Offline #social
  • [ ] Tennis #sport #social #club #outside
  • Melobol@lemmy.ml
    7·
    1 month ago

    And I thought I have too amny on my list …
    How about you put them in a hat and draw from the hat every week. Aftef you are done with it you can ask for a new list :D

  • whotookkarl@lemmy.dbzer0.com
    51·
    1 month ago

    Based on the stuff you didn’t like it sounds like you want something challenging but not too hard and something in a group or duo instead of solo. Maybe a team sport that people don’t take very seriously like join a bowling league or amateur league for something you used to play. If I’m ever really stuck I’ll read some philosophy for inspiration on what to do, ethics are normative so they might help in motivating a specific choice over another. Maybe In Praise of Idleness by Bertrand Russell for a short essay or for something more substantive but not dry or boring Knowledge, Reality, and Value by Michael Huemer.

  • Professorozone@lemmy.world
    3·
    1 month ago

    I play disc golf. Where I live it’s free in the various state parks. You do have to buy some discs, about $20 each, but you don’t need many.

  • underthunder@thelemmy.club
    42·
    1 month ago

    You really need to work on getting comfortable with sitting in silence because being alone with your thoughts is where wisdom comes from.

  • Berttheduck@lemmy.ml
    2·
    1 month ago

    I have picked up HEMA historical European martial arts. It’s sword fighting. It’s super fun. Everyone at my club is a massive nerd as you might expect. It’s good exercise and genuinely fun. The down side is the kit is pretty expensive. At my club we have a newby joining session with a discounted attendance period which builds to a safety test before you really need to get safety kit which gives people a chance to try it before they spend hundreds on jackets and masks (and swords!).

  • lattrommi@lemmy.mlEnglish
    2·
    1 month ago

    [⋅] Sewing #art #equipment

    Start off small, try sewing scrap cloth A to scrap cloth B. If you don’t hate it and your neck or fingers don’t hurt too much after, it might be the hobby critical post-apocalypse life skill you needed. Next thing you know you’ll have upgraded to leather and sewing fake cat ears onto all your hats or using wire to add strips of stainless steel to leather gloves to give them that sweet medieval guantlet look. Even if you don’t descend that far into the sewing void, knowing how to quickly stitch up the crotch of pants that rip open unepectedly is one of those things you will always appreciate.

  • GiorgioPerlasca@lemmy.ml
    1·
    1 month ago

    Just try things. I mean a lot of things.

    You will discover that you love doing things you would never expect to love. You will also find that things that are fun on paper are pretty boring to you when you do it.