• YTG123@sopuli.xyz
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    2 days ago

    It was never about skin colour though, was it?

    disclaimer for people who don't like to interpret internet comments charitably

    (even if it was, that wouldn’t make racism acceptable ofc)

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      2 days ago

      I love that disclaimer. I feel like I need to put it on everything. People seem quite incapable of separating descriptive and normative statements on here.

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        2 days ago

        Sometimes I feel like people have misinterpreted all my social critiques as advocacy for the things I was critiquing.

        Like I’ll point something out, say “Society tends to do such-and-such,” implying, “and that’s wrong,” but what people hear instead is “as it should.”

        Like, I could explicitly state “and that’s wrong” all the time, but sometimes that would get a “no shit” reaction, or possibly come off as performative.

        Sometimes there’s just no winning…

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          3 hours ago

          Small minds, they are not used to braining. They think making a statement means promoting that thing. They think criticizing an argument automatically means you disagree with it.