“I can’t be crazy because I’ve never been to therapy!”
“I just keep all my shit stuffed so deep down it eventually seeps from every pore. Punishing strangers via harmful policy I unleash on society gives me a sense of calm and control. Namaste.” 🧘🏼♂️
60 years old, homeless for 10 years, living unsheltered on the side of a major freeway, leg infected to such a degree she had to have a foot amputated, leg then re-infected, other people keep stealing her wheelchair, but she refuses services, sitting in the dirt, feet away from 55mph (88.5kph) traffic, in 101° (38°C) heat.
“Vicky is known to our outreach workers, as well as teams who work with the city, all of whom have been attempting to provide services or engage for several weeks. At times, she has informed those teams that she has not been interested in care. But they continue to check in and try to work with her.”
Universal Health Care means Universal Mental Health Care too, and until we can get people off the street and into care for their own well being, we will continue to see situations like this.
At what point do you tell someone “you’re incapable of caring for yourself, we’ll do it for you.”?
I agree with you it is a major dilemma when you have a situation where someone is stuck in a pattern that is essentially self harm and a cry for help, but they refuse help. I’ve actually been dealing with an ongoing similar situation for an immediate family member.
I’m the last one that they have contact with. I’ve spent my life begging them to get help. I say this not as a judgment for any other person’s situation, but in my case it felt like starting from a very young age, I spent most of my life trying to save somebody who was supposed to be the adult in the situation, but emotionally they were an angry child lashing out at every one who activated them. It didn’t matter what I did or how hard I tried, I just never could help them or convince them to get help.
It took me going to therapy to even realize that it didn’t matter how many times I kept throwing a life preserver, they were just going to keep batting it away. That was part of their mental health issue and the continuous cycle. In my case they preferred to just have someone drown with them because they were too scared to get help/hear the truth I guess.
Anyway, it got to the point it became detrimental to my own physical and mental health. I still do what I can, but I basically had to just accept that I’m an adult now with my own life and other responsibilities, and I couldn’t keep doing this to myself or my family for somebody who I was essentially enabling by dropping everything and rushing to their rescue over and over.
It absolutely breaks my heart to think about it, but the honest answer is, it’s a shitty situation and there isn’t a good answer at the moment. However, if there is a solution, it’s not going to be a cheap or easy one.
Even in the case of my family member, I feel safer with them taking the risk of being on the streets than I would if they were locked away in institution that has an incentive to keep people mentally ill forever with no oversight for human rights, and no standard of care.
I talked to a case worker not that long ago who said she had a patient who had been in a full blown state of psychosis for months with no help. I know how frighteningly fucked the medical system (which was never great to begin with) is in this country right now. There is no help or even getting better for most health issues. Mental health was always at the bottom of a broken healthcare totem pole even before Trump 2.0.
It’s just another continuous cycle where conservatives yanked funding and fired everyone or got them to quit from rather than keep banging their heads against a wall trying to help people with resources that no longer exist.
Now people are just shuffled from place to place with no chance of actually getting anything resembling help until they’re sent to the ER for an actual life and death emergency. If they survive, they’re just released back on to the streets. It’s a very expensive and worthless cycle, and the people that caused it love to claim it’s evidence that Medicaid is unsustainable. Soon they’ll probably be claiming it’s also evidence it would just be cheaper and better for everyone if they could just lock people up and throw away the key.
That’s what’s so absolutely fucked about all this. It’s not that they want people off the street because they want to help them. They’re making it easier to just lock people away for life, while simultaneously making more cuts for mental health, substance abuse, and housing assistance than ever before.
It’s their same approach to solving crime. It’s not a solution to just lock all poor people up so that there aren’t any more people desperate enough to commit crime. It doesn’t solve any of the complex social issues that are driving crime, addiction, or mental health problems, and often the people making these policies have an added incentive due to their own investments in the entire fucked up system they’ve created.
The more you jam pack private prisons/detention centers/institutions, the more their stock goes up. And it’s so fucking sneaky and evil how many fucking different ways they’ve figured out how to capitalize on the problem and prey on people who need help instead of actually just trying to help them.
It’s not even just private prisons anymore. Now it’s also the fucking transportation companies to and from the prisons. It’s the pharmaceutical companies that manufacture the expensive patented medications that doctors are pressured to prescribe to patients when they’re institutionalized.
I literally wouldn’t be surprised to learn that there are oligarchs hedging their bets on Trump’s executive order to make it easier to lock people up for mental illness. They’re probably buying up stock in hospital beds and whatever company makes straps to keep people restrained.
They think that there’s nothing wrong with this. That they’re just being smart/good at business by backing the policy that’s destroying lives, and that they’re actually “helping people” by taking them somewhere else where society doesn’t have to see them or think about them. Out of sight. Out of mind.
I think that the day we start locking up these callous, wealth hoarding, manipulative, narcissistic, predatory psychopaths away from the rest of society and forcing them to get treatment, maybe we can start talking about locking up everyone else against their will for obvious mental health problems they refuse to address.
That’s what it really is. The same old saying that a poor person with mental illness is a burden to society while a rich person with mental illness can be an eccentric. Except the eccentrics have been allowed to take over the government, and they’ve started capitalizing on their ability to do harm to others. The “eccentrics” who claim that their callous and unemotional behavior is what makes them so great at the game of life, even as they continue to pose the most obvious threat to society compared to the “crazy people” they want to lock away.
All true, and incentive to fix what’s wrong with the system, but we can’t fix it in it’s current state, it needs billions in investment to reverse the damage caused by Reagan that turned people loose in the streets in the first place.
Locally, in my town? I think a billion would cover it.
We need a no questions asked hospital for medical care and a no questions asked mental health/addiction clinic. Get everyone the treatment they need. If they need permanent care, provide permanent care.
If folks are physically and mentally fit (or when they become physically and mentally fit), they need an agency for job training and placement and housing assistance. Provide email, address and phone service, as well as laundry assistance. Job and interview training.
There also need to be specialists on the job and housing sides too who deal with people with criminal records.
Speaking of, people with open warrants or actively committing crimes need to go through the criminal justice system.
Never, you can bring a horse to water but you can’t make it drink. You can give a person help but its up to them to take it. Even humanitarianism requires consent.
Forcing someone to undergo potentially mind-altering medical treatment (because they absolutely will drug someone who fights against being there) and probably abuse (just check the stats) at the hands of the system isn’t humanitarian either.
This is one of those situations where all you can really do is make sure the options are as good as they can be, so people want to choose to get help, and we are not even remotely doing that.
Severely mentally ill people don’t want to choose help, that’s a function of being severely mentally ill. Leaving the decision making to people fundamentally incapable of making a decision actively harms them.
If the system was actually helpful to people, and severely ill patients still didn’t want help, you might have a point. Right now though, the system doesn’t help most people, it harms them actively, so we don’t actually know how many people would still refuse quality care.
And let’s be serious here, the number of people so mentally ill they can’t be trusted to make a decision about whether or not to take offered help…? Really really small percentage. We definitely shouldn’t be structuring the entire system based on edge cases, even if those edge cases have a legitimate need for that sort of inhumane treatment (a premise I strongly question).
Yes, however it’s mostly a refutation to your prior comment that severely mentally ill people refuse treatment as a direct consequence of being mentally ill. This is only rarely the case. The vast majority of those severely mentally ill people are still people capable of learning about stuff and doing cost-benefit analysis for their own lives. They make rational decisions to the best of their ability. This ability may be flawed, but that’s the case for all people. Nobody has a pure, 100% complete and accurate view of things.
They refuse treatment largely because the system is horrible. Would they still refuse if the system wasn’t horrible? Most of them probably would not, because struggling is really hard. Most of them would get themselves the help they feel they need if they honestly thought there would be a good outcome.
But what they think they need and what the system or society thinks they need aren’t necessarily the same thing. Maybe all they really -need- is a place to exist exactly as they are, with zero medical intervention, with a clean environment where they feel safe and secure. If that’s all you felt you needed, would you risk being drugged for the rest of your life? I sure as hell wouldn’t, no matter how bad my experience of existence is. At least I have agency.
And honestly until we reach that point, where mental healthcare is supportive to the individual and genuinely helps them live whatever they feel is a fulfilling life, discussing what to do with the minuscule remaining fraction of sufferers (a number we genuinely can’t even quantify at this point) is sort of dumb, and seems like a pretty big distraction from doing anything better for everyone who isn’t in that camp.
That’s still better than letting an amputee sit in the dirt, feet away from freeway traffic, unprotected in 100° heat.
At some point there needs to be a competency hearing and the person cared for even if they can’t or won’t ask for it. ESPECIALLY if they can’t or won’t ask for it.
The alternative is going “Welp, too bad they died, nothing we could do.”
This is something you and I aren’t going to agree on. From my perspective its an issue of consent. From yours (it seems) and issue of wellbeing. Our heirarchies of needs seem to value personal agency at different levels. I consider it to be a core need, and from that perspective I would never (given the power to do so) exert my will to care for someone as a ward of the state or whatever org I represent without the consent of the individual to be cared for.
I also recognize what you’re saying, that at a certain level of incompetence a person should no longer be able to advocate for themselves and should be required to accept care.
I personally believe that if a person can communicate, they can communicate consent. If a person is completely unable to communicate, it may be a good idea to give them a period of investigative and protective custody to determine their safety, but from their perspective that could be a kidnapping.
I’m not saying your perspective is wrong, but this is a situation that needs to be handled with extreme nuance and care by professionals.
On competency evaluations:
I’d need a large panel of Psyches from the same and similar communit(y/ies) as the JD (john doe/ jane doe) to all agree they are incompetent before I’d be comfortable allowing their consent to be violated in the manner of state endorsed internment in medical or mental facilities. If the medical community agrees, and the people around the JD agree, then and only then should the JD be given care without their consent.
I think the difference in our opinions are less than you think it is, you argue from a point of personal autonomy, and I get that, my argument is they have already lost their autonomy due to mental illness.
So if they have no autonomy already, society needs to error on the side of making sure they get appropriate care, especially when the alternative is utter destitution and death.
I think that’s an incredibly risky philosophical position to take that should be examined in conjunction with discussing it with people of varying mental illnesses and recovery statuses.
Especially when we discuss the sane choosing for the insane we run the risk of unknown cruelty. Mentally well people have a long history of assuming they know what’s best for the unwell and in doing so accidentally doing something harmful. Things like criticizing the bodies of anorexic people, shaming those struggling with executive function, blunt refutation of delusion, basically whatever Phil McGraw does on his show.
So is it anyone with a mental illness that refuses treatment that can be institutionalized? Only certain disorders/symptoms? Only certain severities? Will we know it when we see it or will we accept that some people who seem like they should be won’t be or vice versa? Are we comfortable with the risks of abuse of power here? What about the weight of bias from the part of the mental health professionals assuming anyone in front of them must be unwell? In diagnosis there is no madman’s advocate, even when the cost of diagnosis is difficult to distinguish from imprisonment.
“I can’t be crazy because I’ve never been to therapy!”
“I just keep all my shit stuffed so deep down it eventually seeps from every pore. Punishing strangers via harmful policy I unleash on society gives me a sense of calm and control. Namaste.” 🧘🏼♂️
Trump signs an executive order to make it easier to remove homeless people from streets
A Look at the New Executive Order and the Intersection of Homelessness and Mental Illness
Well, what do you do for people like this?
60 years old, homeless for 10 years, living unsheltered on the side of a major freeway, leg infected to such a degree she had to have a foot amputated, leg then re-infected, other people keep stealing her wheelchair, but she refuses services, sitting in the dirt, feet away from 55mph (88.5kph) traffic, in 101° (38°C) heat.
https://katu.com/news/homeless-crisis/woman-struggling-to-survive-along-i-5-in-portland-a-firsthand-look-at-finding-help-with-homelessness
“Vicky is known to our outreach workers, as well as teams who work with the city, all of whom have been attempting to provide services or engage for several weeks. At times, she has informed those teams that she has not been interested in care. But they continue to check in and try to work with her.”
Universal Health Care means Universal Mental Health Care too, and until we can get people off the street and into care for their own well being, we will continue to see situations like this.
At what point do you tell someone “you’re incapable of caring for yourself, we’ll do it for you.”?
I agree with you it is a major dilemma when you have a situation where someone is stuck in a pattern that is essentially self harm and a cry for help, but they refuse help. I’ve actually been dealing with an ongoing similar situation for an immediate family member.
I’m the last one that they have contact with. I’ve spent my life begging them to get help. I say this not as a judgment for any other person’s situation, but in my case it felt like starting from a very young age, I spent most of my life trying to save somebody who was supposed to be the adult in the situation, but emotionally they were an angry child lashing out at every one who activated them. It didn’t matter what I did or how hard I tried, I just never could help them or convince them to get help.
It took me going to therapy to even realize that it didn’t matter how many times I kept throwing a life preserver, they were just going to keep batting it away. That was part of their mental health issue and the continuous cycle. In my case they preferred to just have someone drown with them because they were too scared to get help/hear the truth I guess.
Anyway, it got to the point it became detrimental to my own physical and mental health. I still do what I can, but I basically had to just accept that I’m an adult now with my own life and other responsibilities, and I couldn’t keep doing this to myself or my family for somebody who I was essentially enabling by dropping everything and rushing to their rescue over and over.
It absolutely breaks my heart to think about it, but the honest answer is, it’s a shitty situation and there isn’t a good answer at the moment. However, if there is a solution, it’s not going to be a cheap or easy one.
Even in the case of my family member, I feel safer with them taking the risk of being on the streets than I would if they were locked away in institution that has an incentive to keep people mentally ill forever with no oversight for human rights, and no standard of care.
I talked to a case worker not that long ago who said she had a patient who had been in a full blown state of psychosis for months with no help. I know how frighteningly fucked the medical system (which was never great to begin with) is in this country right now. There is no help or even getting better for most health issues. Mental health was always at the bottom of a broken healthcare totem pole even before Trump 2.0.
It’s just another continuous cycle where conservatives yanked funding and fired everyone or got them to quit from rather than keep banging their heads against a wall trying to help people with resources that no longer exist.
Now people are just shuffled from place to place with no chance of actually getting anything resembling help until they’re sent to the ER for an actual life and death emergency. If they survive, they’re just released back on to the streets. It’s a very expensive and worthless cycle, and the people that caused it love to claim it’s evidence that Medicaid is unsustainable. Soon they’ll probably be claiming it’s also evidence it would just be cheaper and better for everyone if they could just lock people up and throw away the key.
That’s what’s so absolutely fucked about all this. It’s not that they want people off the street because they want to help them. They’re making it easier to just lock people away for life, while simultaneously making more cuts for mental health, substance abuse, and housing assistance than ever before.
It’s their same approach to solving crime. It’s not a solution to just lock all poor people up so that there aren’t any more people desperate enough to commit crime. It doesn’t solve any of the complex social issues that are driving crime, addiction, or mental health problems, and often the people making these policies have an added incentive due to their own investments in the entire fucked up system they’ve created.
The more you jam pack private prisons/detention centers/institutions, the more their stock goes up. And it’s so fucking sneaky and evil how many fucking different ways they’ve figured out how to capitalize on the problem and prey on people who need help instead of actually just trying to help them.
It’s not even just private prisons anymore. Now it’s also the fucking transportation companies to and from the prisons. It’s the pharmaceutical companies that manufacture the expensive patented medications that doctors are pressured to prescribe to patients when they’re institutionalized.
I literally wouldn’t be surprised to learn that there are oligarchs hedging their bets on Trump’s executive order to make it easier to lock people up for mental illness. They’re probably buying up stock in hospital beds and whatever company makes straps to keep people restrained.
They think that there’s nothing wrong with this. That they’re just being smart/good at business by backing the policy that’s destroying lives, and that they’re actually “helping people” by taking them somewhere else where society doesn’t have to see them or think about them. Out of sight. Out of mind.
I think that the day we start locking up these callous, wealth hoarding, manipulative, narcissistic, predatory psychopaths away from the rest of society and forcing them to get treatment, maybe we can start talking about locking up everyone else against their will for obvious mental health problems they refuse to address.
That’s what it really is. The same old saying that a poor person with mental illness is a burden to society while a rich person with mental illness can be an eccentric. Except the eccentrics have been allowed to take over the government, and they’ve started capitalizing on their ability to do harm to others. The “eccentrics” who claim that their callous and unemotional behavior is what makes them so great at the game of life, even as they continue to pose the most obvious threat to society compared to the “crazy people” they want to lock away.
All true, and incentive to fix what’s wrong with the system, but we can’t fix it in it’s current state, it needs billions in investment to reverse the damage caused by Reagan that turned people loose in the streets in the first place.
Locally, in my town? I think a billion would cover it.
We need a no questions asked hospital for medical care and a no questions asked mental health/addiction clinic. Get everyone the treatment they need. If they need permanent care, provide permanent care.
If folks are physically and mentally fit (or when they become physically and mentally fit), they need an agency for job training and placement and housing assistance. Provide email, address and phone service, as well as laundry assistance. Job and interview training.
There also need to be specialists on the job and housing sides too who deal with people with criminal records.
Speaking of, people with open warrants or actively committing crimes need to go through the criminal justice system.
Never, you can bring a horse to water but you can’t make it drink. You can give a person help but its up to them to take it. Even humanitarianism requires consent.
Leaving someone to die at the side of the road is not humanitarian.
Forcing someone to undergo potentially mind-altering medical treatment (because they absolutely will drug someone who fights against being there) and probably abuse (just check the stats) at the hands of the system isn’t humanitarian either.
This is one of those situations where all you can really do is make sure the options are as good as they can be, so people want to choose to get help, and we are not even remotely doing that.
Severely mentally ill people don’t want to choose help, that’s a function of being severely mentally ill. Leaving the decision making to people fundamentally incapable of making a decision actively harms them.
If the system was actually helpful to people, and severely ill patients still didn’t want help, you might have a point. Right now though, the system doesn’t help most people, it harms them actively, so we don’t actually know how many people would still refuse quality care.
And let’s be serious here, the number of people so mentally ill they can’t be trusted to make a decision about whether or not to take offered help…? Really really small percentage. We definitely shouldn’t be structuring the entire system based on edge cases, even if those edge cases have a legitimate need for that sort of inhumane treatment (a premise I strongly question).
That’s an argument to fix the system, which I 110% agree with. That doesn’t mean we shouldn’t get people the help they need.
Yes, however it’s mostly a refutation to your prior comment that severely mentally ill people refuse treatment as a direct consequence of being mentally ill. This is only rarely the case. The vast majority of those severely mentally ill people are still people capable of learning about stuff and doing cost-benefit analysis for their own lives. They make rational decisions to the best of their ability. This ability may be flawed, but that’s the case for all people. Nobody has a pure, 100% complete and accurate view of things.
They refuse treatment largely because the system is horrible. Would they still refuse if the system wasn’t horrible? Most of them probably would not, because struggling is really hard. Most of them would get themselves the help they feel they need if they honestly thought there would be a good outcome.
But what they think they need and what the system or society thinks they need aren’t necessarily the same thing. Maybe all they really -need- is a place to exist exactly as they are, with zero medical intervention, with a clean environment where they feel safe and secure. If that’s all you felt you needed, would you risk being drugged for the rest of your life? I sure as hell wouldn’t, no matter how bad my experience of existence is. At least I have agency.
And honestly until we reach that point, where mental healthcare is supportive to the individual and genuinely helps them live whatever they feel is a fulfilling life, discussing what to do with the minuscule remaining fraction of sufferers (a number we genuinely can’t even quantify at this point) is sort of dumb, and seems like a pretty big distraction from doing anything better for everyone who isn’t in that camp.
Neither is forcing them to accept care they don’t want.
That’s still better than letting an amputee sit in the dirt, feet away from freeway traffic, unprotected in 100° heat.
At some point there needs to be a competency hearing and the person cared for even if they can’t or won’t ask for it. ESPECIALLY if they can’t or won’t ask for it.
The alternative is going “Welp, too bad they died, nothing we could do.”
This is something you and I aren’t going to agree on. From my perspective its an issue of consent. From yours (it seems) and issue of wellbeing. Our heirarchies of needs seem to value personal agency at different levels. I consider it to be a core need, and from that perspective I would never (given the power to do so) exert my will to care for someone as a ward of the state or whatever org I represent without the consent of the individual to be cared for.
I also recognize what you’re saying, that at a certain level of incompetence a person should no longer be able to advocate for themselves and should be required to accept care.
I personally believe that if a person can communicate, they can communicate consent. If a person is completely unable to communicate, it may be a good idea to give them a period of investigative and protective custody to determine their safety, but from their perspective that could be a kidnapping.
I’m not saying your perspective is wrong, but this is a situation that needs to be handled with extreme nuance and care by professionals.
On competency evaluations:
I’d need a large panel of Psyches from the same and similar communit(y/ies) as the JD (john doe/ jane doe) to all agree they are incompetent before I’d be comfortable allowing their consent to be violated in the manner of state endorsed internment in medical or mental facilities. If the medical community agrees, and the people around the JD agree, then and only then should the JD be given care without their consent.
I think the difference in our opinions are less than you think it is, you argue from a point of personal autonomy, and I get that, my argument is they have already lost their autonomy due to mental illness.
So if they have no autonomy already, society needs to error on the side of making sure they get appropriate care, especially when the alternative is utter destitution and death.
I think that’s an incredibly risky philosophical position to take that should be examined in conjunction with discussing it with people of varying mental illnesses and recovery statuses.
Especially when we discuss the sane choosing for the insane we run the risk of unknown cruelty. Mentally well people have a long history of assuming they know what’s best for the unwell and in doing so accidentally doing something harmful. Things like criticizing the bodies of anorexic people, shaming those struggling with executive function, blunt refutation of delusion, basically whatever Phil McGraw does on his show.
So is it anyone with a mental illness that refuses treatment that can be institutionalized? Only certain disorders/symptoms? Only certain severities? Will we know it when we see it or will we accept that some people who seem like they should be won’t be or vice versa? Are we comfortable with the risks of abuse of power here? What about the weight of bias from the part of the mental health professionals assuming anyone in front of them must be unwell? In diagnosis there is no madman’s advocate, even when the cost of diagnosis is difficult to distinguish from imprisonment.
You have them evaluated and tell them to either get help or prepare to receive help.
Wanting to live off-grid is one thing but choosing to live on the sidewalk in front of my house is not acceptable.
Yup!