• Polderviking@feddit.nl
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    1 year ago

    The abuse of trust is the problem there, not the trust itself…

    There’s no scenario where you’re not the a-hole if you’re going to parrot something someone else told you in private, elsewhere.

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      There’s no scenario where you’re not the a-hole if you’re going to parrot something someone else told you in private, elsewhere.

      I can think of several, including the one being described in the original post

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        1 year ago

        I think you think I’m agry with the wrong person. Who do you think my statement was directed against?

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            Explain to me me how “someone told you in private” would ever apply to this Derek character leaking a group chat. What is private about a group chat?

            Obviously I’m talking about the guy that forwarded juicy messages someone sent him privately to his buddies in this leaked group chat.

            Even though I don’t think my original comment leaves much wiggle room for interpretive play, maybe I could have explained better. But maybe you’re a bit too eager to find people to recreationally chastise.

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      Seems like the finger should be pointed at you for being so naive and trusting someone so blindly?

      And reading the post, you telling me if OP was sending nudes of his girlfriend to a group chat, Derrick is the asshole here?

      Yeah alright.