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  • I just got into my first poly relationship with two other trans girls and they were a couple before me. Feels perfectly fine and natural so far even if I was fiercely mono before transitioning and they even talk about moving in together without me. I totally get that’s not for everyone and I certainly couldn’t have handled it in the past.

    That said, I have no idea where this is going or if it’s a good idea in the long run. Embracing the unknown because I’ve always rolled like that. Pain is temporary and chicks dig scars kind of a deal. Do chicks dig emotional scars too? How about guys since I’m pan? 😅

    To be a bit more serious, I think you probably need to have a pretty strong sense of self worth if poly is going to work for you. Not sure I fit that description precisely, but I feel a lot better about myself than I did before so I’m cautiously optimistic.








  • I’ve done 1-4. Forced to use W on work lappy, but I do absolutely nothing private on that thing and I’ve put it on a separate LAN segment, wired only. Corporate allows no tampering, so it’s about what I can do.

    I have only one W partition for some specific HW setup related apps that I have failed to get to work or find alternatives for on Linux. That W was locked down as far as I’ve managed, but now I just remove the LAN cable and don’t bother. If I need to install something, I sneaker-net it.



  • katja@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneHappy rule day
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    6 months ago

    What would happen if a significant number of people started cross dressing and using the wrong bathrooms in Florida for example? The point is to break unjust laws, not molotoving the Capitolium. Duh.

    The orange toddler (maybe not him, but his handlers) are very afraid of that kind of lawbreaking because that is turning the tables on their strategy and springing aforementioned trap on them instead. Edit: If they do it, why shouldn’t we?