The fediverse is about options. If you don’t like how someone else runs their platform or community you can create your own. It’s awesome because you don’t get locked into one platform. And in the future I think we will see more big companies and organisations running their own stuff. But I agree that at the moment it is not what “normal people” are looking for and it will take quite some time until it develops. But to be fair the same was the case for reddit.

Just create your own community or instance. That’s what the fediverse is for

FYI lemmyshitpost is not the community for people to post to who want to turn lemmy to shit like reddit.

Did you recommend going to therapy to your therapist?