This article was the final nail in the coffin in my journey towards being agender: https://medium.com/@viridiangrail/so-you-found-out-youre-agender-because-you-don-t-understand-trans-people-886fdee6f178

Yes, the article explains what Control Net is for those of us who haven’t heard of it before. And the article says that Control Net was (apparently) initially meant to be used for qr codes.

A third term is aesthetic attraction, which is “I like looking at that person” but not necessarily “I want to have intercourse with that person”