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    I lay out all my problems on the table pretty immediately, so I wouldn’t say surprised by, but probably least expected would be that for a guy my sex drive is very low. I’ve been about half to a quarter as driven as any girl I’ve been with.

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      Your hormones are out of whack. Get yourself tested. It’s not expensive and unaddressed endocrine problems are really shitty.

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        o/

        I’ve got an ace friend with ADHD, you’re not alone!

        One thing to remember about pretty much anything neurological is that we fucking suck at understanding it. It’s likely we’re grouping a lot of different causes and symptoms that look similar together so there will be a lot of variations in our symptoms and how we respond to different medications.

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    That I’m vegan. They just can’t believe it so I have to tell them about it all night long.

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    That I really have absolutely zero interest in smelling their buttholes. Also, I sometimes eat plants.

    Yeah, I guess I just might be a crazy cat person.

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    About two months into dating my now-wife we came across a street piano. I sat down and started playing which blew her mind. She had no idea that I could play. Somehow it hadn’t come up (I’m pretty out of practice) but she acted like it was a big secret I was keeping or something. It was kind of fun to surprise her even though I didn’t do it on purpose.

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    That I exist. And that we’re in a relationship.

    It’s a love-hate thing. You wouldn’t get it…

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    Apparently they are suprised to learn that I don’t magically gain empathy over time. I was born with only a few shits to give per day, and that number ain’t going up.

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    Usually minor talents, knowledge, or the like. I.E. I can sew, knit, and crochet fairly well. I also know a decent amount about makeup and hair as well as am able to help apply (make-up) pretty well too.

    I spent a decent amount of time helping with those things growing up and helping past partners too. It’s fun to help them get all gussied up! They have to do the color matching though. I’m absolutely terrible with that.

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    The ever growing pile of dead bodies burried in my backyard.

    But they never seem to mind… For too long.