• edible_funk@lemmy.world
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    5 days ago

    Not really, I’ve been in that situation. Her buddy said nice dick, people laughed, that was that. When I got across the room to where my clothes were I got dressed. You might just be a prude.

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      5 days ago

      Okay, I’ll just start hanging out naked around people who didn’t agree to see my junk, and if anyone feels uncomfortable I’ll call them a prude. We’ll see how that goes.

      Your anecdote about a few people who happened to be pro-nudity doesn’t change that. The same situation could’ve landed you in jail and registered as a sex offender if your audience happened to be different.

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        No it couldn’t when you’re in a private space. Plenty of people have seen my dick because they came into a space where I was free to have my dick out for whatever reason. Never had an issue. Are you autistic or just really bad at social cues? This isn’t complicated. There’s times and places that nudity isn’t inappropriate. Private spaces are one. Have you ever seen in person the opposite sex naked? It’s not a big deal.

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          There’s a difference between “I’ve been naked with another adult in a mutually consensual situation” and “oh haha, let me just hang out naked to make people uncomfortable so I can laugh at them.”

          Did you not read the OP?

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            Yes. If people come into my private spaces they do so with the understanding that they may see me nude. Given the context of the op the implication is the flings friends came over after the fling had some fun and thus came into the nude persons space where they’re allowed to be naked. Their discomfort with her nudity is their problem. You’re projecting that it was some sort of power play when a remarkable number of people just aren’t bothered by nudity because it’s not inherently sexual.

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              This isn’t her private space. Why would her fling’s friends be at her apartment?

              If this wasn’t a power play then why would she be meming about it?

              If this was projection on my part then it would be totally fine for me to hang out naked at “my fling’s” apartment while she has friends over? That would go entirely differently and you know it.

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                5 days ago

                Yeah it’s fling’s space where she was invited to be comfortable up to and including nudity. If fling was uncomfortable with it they’d have said something. If flings friend’s were uncomfortable they’d have said something. If you’re nude in a space with other people it’s amusing when they try and fail to pretend you’re not nude. They know they’re nude. It’s not a big deal. And it wouldn’t because I’ve literally been in that exact situation with at three or four different partners. Nobody cared. Y’all are just porn-brained.

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                  Except this meme is literally reveling in the idea of making someone uncomfortable, so your whole charade of “no this is actually mutually consensual” is a sham.

                  But sure, call that porn-brained. I hope next time you show your junk to the wrong person and it bites you on the ass so hard you’ll be introducing yourself to your new neighbors for the rest of your life. Don’t sweat it, I’m sure they’re just “porn-brained.” Jackass.