• gravitas_deficiency@sh.itjust.works
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    5 days ago

    Hey, kink is fun as hell. The whole societal shame bullshit around anything related to sex outside of the context of procreation is fucking dumb, and I’ve more or less fully rejected that mindset at this point. We are humans; humans were designed to feel good when smashing; hence, we like to smash. And exploring fun aspects and dynamics in that context is exciting and delightful.

    Remember: “tradition” is just peer pressure from dead people.

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      5 days ago

      That’s not a kink. Sex for fun is entirely normal human.

      Sex only for impregnation on the other hand, that’s a specific fetish.

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        There’s definitely a gender dichotomy in terms of societal acceptance of sex as a form of fun. For men, it’s generally like “yeah, get some!”; for women; it’s often a lot closer to “omg you whore 😱”

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      This is why kink is celebrated at Pride, society makes people feel shame for the things they enjoy and that’s bullshit.