PhenomenalPancake@lemmy.world to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world · 2 months agoWho's in the wrong here?lemmy.worldimagemessage-square141fedilinkarrow-up1627arrow-down143
arrow-up1584arrow-down1imageWho's in the wrong here?lemmy.worldPhenomenalPancake@lemmy.world to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world · 2 months agomessage-square141fedilink
minus-squarebutwhyishischinabook@anarchist.nexuslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up84arrow-down1·2 months agoGrey is definitely in the wrong, that’s exactly when you should have used a white lie but they were being a huge dick.
minus-squareDanquebec@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up5arrow-down2·2 months agoBeing dishonest about it would have been way worse. But grey’s reaction after that is ridiculous.
minus-squareKombatWombat@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up6·2 months agoObviously you shouldn’t cancel on someone because something more interesting came along. But I would say telling them that’s the reason is worse than just not giving one or making up something.
minus-squareDanquebec@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up6·2 months agoYea I’m going to clarify my comment: of course, cancelling for this reason is a dick move. But I stand by that: being honest about being a dick is better than making up excuses.
Grey is definitely in the wrong, that’s exactly when you should have used a white lie but they were being a huge dick.
Being dishonest about it would have been way worse.
But grey’s reaction after that is ridiculous.
Obviously you shouldn’t cancel on someone because something more interesting came along. But I would say telling them that’s the reason is worse than just not giving one or making up something.
Yea I’m going to clarify my comment: of course, cancelling for this reason is a dick move.
But I stand by that: being honest about being a dick is better than making up excuses.