• OpenStars@piefed.social
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    5 days ago

    Right… (but remember they don’t know that!), hence “centrists” (aka right-wingers, even if they think they are “left”-leaning) do not feel welcomed here.

    And most of the people within this space seem okay with that.

    I’m just saying what it is, not how it should be. They do not feel welcomed, we don’t want to change that, hence the situation remains as it is now, and will not change.

    And they will vote Republican. With Facebook, X, and Reddit feeding their social media connections. And nothing will change.

    You may choose to feel superior and schadenfreude if you wish, but for me I choose to feel sadness, and reluctant acceptance that there is nothing I can do to change any of it.

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      5 days ago

      Oh, I don’t feel schadenfreude, but I know I’d rather help someone crack a smile in dark times than feed into it, there’s enough misery vampires around as it is

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        5 days ago

        True dat

        I also see how we all are mistaken, in some way or another. Including “them” - “them” is also “us”, in so many ways. Possibly not the ones that count, but then again I’ve been wrong so many times before that I no longer hold onto my ideals as tightly as I once did.

        And as for judgement… yes they are wrong, but we are hypocrites as well, e.g. for both wishing that the Fediverse would grow, while simultaneously (1) not welcoming anyone into it (even / especially those of us already here), and (2) also not putting forth the requisite efforts to generate the very content that we would wish to see for ourselves. Our mods work to the point of exhaustion (a great example being lemm.ee), and our content creators too.

        We cannot have and be literally all things, especially all at once.

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          4 days ago

          So, what are you actually saying? We should start having the same discussions as on Reddit in order to make people feel more welcome? The whole point with an alternative platform is to have a safe space for those that do not agree with the opinions that is of a majority there, and might even feel threatened by those platforms, not mirror them so that it can “grow”.

          Growth is a good metric for algorithm-driven platforms where ad revenue is the primary goal, not for a safe harbor for those that seek refuge from harassment and attacks.