• jjjalljs@ttrpg.network
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    16 days ago

    Reminds me of a long road trip I took in my youth. After a couple days we were basically speaking in in-jokes

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    I always try to be the person who is chill and relaxed. Always ready to meet new people, never embarrassed. One time in 9th grade somebody told me “OMG I actually can’t tell my crush I like him!” and I was like “watch and learn bitch” and I went up to a random guy and said “ayo wanna go on a date?” and he was like “uhm…ok…?”

  • Onno (VK6FLAB)@lemmy.radio
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    Not for nothing, I suspect that if that’s the group dynamics in groups you participate in, you need to work on finding better groups.

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      I could not disagree more. They’ve clearly gotten to know one another in a positive way and are clearly all enjoying themselves; what more could you really want from a group? Just because they’re enjoying something you wouldn’t enjoy doesn’t make it bad.

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        I think that the context here is important, a formal setting of a lecture, not the cafeteria or someone’s dorm room.

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          I mean, there’s very few people in that hall, so presumably they’re arriving before the lecture starts. Furthermore, if the lecturer (or whomever else) had a problem with it, presumably they would have put a stop to it during the two months depicted here.

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      If your friend group can’t greet each other by making random sounds, you need to work on finding better groups.

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      The ability to use random nonsensical greetings shows how comfortable the members of the group are with each other by completely discarding formalities.