…gen x were abandoned in playgrounds just for predators to take. And two generations before that parents were selling their kids to pay rent.

Which followed with generations of helicopter parents. So they tried something different.

I’ve seen kids grow up without being told they’re loved and then turn around and tell their own kids they are loved every day.

Ppl figure it out by experimenting.

Point is: if you’re trying, That is the best you can do. There is no manual.