• FireIced@lemmy.super.ynh.fr
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    8 hours ago

    I fear that he won’t get many friends this way

    Mainstream might be boring but it’s an easy way to connect with people

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      5 hours ago

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      The trick is to introduce your kid to your taste in gaming while they’re young

      And then when they are in their tweens and want to game online with their mates, you set them up for it (with proper supervision and such, of course)

      And they WILL develop their own taste in gaming – But they will have some common ground with you still.

      … It worked for me and my dad (avid PC gamer, mostly plays strategy games and management sims though) anyway. Years later I convinced him to get Civ V and he completely destroyed me in it.

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      7 hours ago

      This was the argument I used in high school when I wanted an Xbox 360. My parents were super reluctant given the cost, and then I told them I have nothing to talk about with friends in the hallways and I’m left out of conversations (I was). They reconsidered and eventually folded, and I was very appreciative

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      8 hours ago

      I didn’t get many friends the old fashioned way and I turned out fine in the end.

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          4 hours ago

          Unlikely. The reason I didn’t have many friends is simply because I didn’t get along with them: my interests were not their interests. It’s much more fulfilling to find people who align with and elevate you than to seek popular approval.