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minus-squareDeceptichum@quokk.aulinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3arrow-down1·edit-218 hours agoOh please, it’s clearly obvious there is nothing heteronormative about hetero people using topping to mean something else. Peoples having a different meaning is not the same as enforcing themselves as the default, it’s not even tangentially related.
minus-squareadr1an@programming.devlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·18 hours agoFwiw, I’m hetero and having a girl on top feels like they have more, if not all, control. I never subscribed to homosexual dichotomy of tops and bottoms. Long ago, I learnt that there were “active” and “passive” roles. I guess it’s generational. Like “old” terms that sound antique or even “wrong”.
Oh please, it’s clearly obvious there is nothing heteronormative about hetero people using topping to mean something else. Peoples having a different meaning is not the same as enforcing themselves as the default, it’s not even tangentially related.
Fwiw, I’m hetero and having a girl on top feels like they have more, if not all, control.
I never subscribed to homosexual dichotomy of tops and bottoms. Long ago, I learnt that there were “active” and “passive” roles.
I guess it’s generational. Like “old” terms that sound antique or even “wrong”.