• cynar@lemmy.world
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    9 days ago

    Any family that revolves around the children, will start tearing itself apart. The parental partnership should be the center of it. It provides the strength to teach and guide the kids, while not being led astray.

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      8 days ago

      Exactly! Parents are the first people the kid looks on as their family model, and only together can they provide the best care.

      It’s in the best interest of your child to be a happy loving couple first and foremost.

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        8 days ago

        It’s far from easy. That’s partly why it’s so important. They instinctively want to make you orbit around them. Without your combined strength counterbalancing this, they have no true reference to grow around.