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Cake day: June 20th, 2023

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  • I find it hard to believe anyone would not immediately burn the fake ID used to book into the Hostel, which they say he had it on him. I would have burned the coffee cup from before the event too though.

    Honestly, I wouldn’t have gone to Starbucks or McDonald’s (24 year boycott) either, let alone sitting down inside. I’d be in Mexico or Canada. Why would he go back to the state of his alma mater? This doesn’t make a lot of sense, and like the wonderful Judge Judy says, “if it doesn’t make sense, it’s not true”. I’m sticking with “scapegoat” until I hear something logical.


  • Positive reinforcement works better for helping people quit :(

    Especially when quitting smoking tanks a person’s dopamine levels. It takes weeks for the body to re-regulate production.

    To anyone reading this who has quit/is quitting: congratulations! It’s tough, you have shown a force of willpower and should be proud of yourself.

    Love, a fellow Canadian.

    Edit:

    As with other forms of punishment, aversive methods are generally less effective than positive approaches. It is more important to reward and praise desirable behaviors than to react negatively to unwanted ones. Encouraging a person’s ability to enjoy self-affirmation and self-pride will help them internalize healthy attributes and to become a person deserving of admiration…Shame doesn’t motivate prosocial behaviors; it fuels social withdrawal and low self-esteem.

    Source: took some psych courses
    &
    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/longing-nostalgia/201705/why-shaming-doesnt-work



  • I quit a few months after those came out in my province, and it was a bit of a shock the first time I saw them; but then like most things, they just became stripes on the butt. I probably wasn’t their target audience though.

    While they didn’t make me quit, (I had already decided on my “quit date”), I will say the extra graphic warning pictures were pretty damm effective for starting that conversation with self. I had to take a sharpie to a few packs.



  • Here is a screenshot of the godforsaken guitar so people don’t have to give that site views:

    guitar with ugly eagle painted on it in top panel. Same guitar with hideously ugly Trump signing it

    Image transcription:
    4 panels
    Top right is a regular looking guitar with the ludicrous name “God Bless the USA guitar” for $1000.
    The bottom right is a bright red electric guitar for $1,500.
    Guitar with ugly eagle in flight spanning 75% of it, a US flag filling the remaining 25%, is in top left panel: $1,250.
    Same guitar with hideously ugly Trump signing it in bottom left panel: $10,250.