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  • Accusing? That’s a pretty negative interpretation. It’s just a reasonable hypothesis from what Velma explained of her life, which seems to relate directly to how my words were mis-interpreted through the lens of that preexisting bias. She did not deny it or even comment about it. So maybe yes and maybe no.

    If there wasn’t so much hostility right from the start, hostility bourn possibly from that bias, I would have been more open to clarifying dialogue and continued. Velma, and you, don’t feel like safe people to do that with. You just add more hostility, that doesn’t signal that you’re here for clarity or understanding so I’m not going to feed that hostility.